I have a coworker who greets me with “Hi, what’s up? How’s it going?” and then just continue walking without expecting an answer. It’s such a pet peeve of mine, lol. We’re not Americans, we live in Europe, and this person is definitely an exception, but it still catches me off guard every single time.
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Both are. I worked for one of those.
Had a customer insult a coworker’s mother. The coworker was in her early twenties, moved to this job from waiting because she couldn’t take dealing with people face to face while she was grieving her mother’s death. She was sobbing on the phone, while the customer kept being an antisocial asshole.
Many people think only students do these jobs (perplexed why they would even think that) and that makes them believe they can mistreat the employees. There was an interaction between a coworker with no kids and one of these assholes. She was fed up with this shit and bit back, telling them she’s a single mother of two, and to stop assuming who works these jobs. Funnily, it shut the customer up real fast, and suddenly they were apologetic.
These are just two from the sea of many that I remember off the top of my head years later.
It’s the same type of people who think fast food workers shouldn’t get a living wage because it’s a “high schooler’s job”.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto Showerthoughts@lemmy.world•Unlike in movies, most smart people aren't good in chess.2·2 months agoIf you’re going to give a “MOBA” as an example, at least go for Dota 2, then. Having played both, LoL is quite one-dimensional and rather repetitive. Of course, you don’t have to be smart or skillful to play either, but top Dota 2 players/pros are really something else.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•Trump's 'body odor' leaves people 'gagging' as Republican says 'you need a mask'7·9 months agoYeah, I think my sense of smell in general has never returned in full capacity. I think it’s slightly weaker. Crazy stuff.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto politics @lemmy.world•Trump's 'body odor' leaves people 'gagging' as Republican says 'you need a mask'11·9 months agoOn a serious note, COVID isn’t the only virus that can cause loss of smell (permanent or temporary). I lost it before COVID for a month or so, and it took some time for it to return completely. But to this day, there are still certain chemical smells (like deodorants in spray) that smell a tiny bit off to me.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto memes@lemmy.world•As a Italian-Polish person, I don't know how to feel..1·9 months agoAll of that sounds good, except mayo, but I’m also not a (warm) mayo fan.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto memes@lemmy.world•As a Italian-Polish person, I don't know how to feel..3·9 months agoGot a friend who eats mayo on pizza. Trying to not be judgey, but I did gag a little just hearing it.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Young girls are using anti-aging products they see on social media. The harm is more than skin deep4·9 months agoIt wasn’t just secretly, or that secretly at all, but it still stuck with me. When I was 10, I was texting a friend about having started periods, an extremely sensitive topic, and my father grabbed my phone to read who I was texting. It’s been very long since that happened, and I don’t have the best memory, but things like this I remember very vividly. Some kids are more sensitive, and you have to build a strong relationship with them for these things to potentially work. I think there is even a Black Mirror episode on this topic.
There’s also a problem that if the kid does know they’re being monitored, they can and some will figure out how to get past it. I can’t offer an immediate solution, because honestly, social media scape is severly fucked nowadays, but there’s no winning scenario I can think of that doesn’t require one to have an extremely good relationship with their kid. And even then, it might not be enough.
I’m glad I’m both old enough I didn’t grow up with tiktok and the likes, and that I don’t have kids to worry about. Being a parent in this day and age sounds absolutely exhausting and uncertain from multiple modern-world perspectives.
Kudos to any working parent who manages to handle it well and has a kid with a good head on their shoulders.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Young girls are using anti-aging products they see on social media. The harm is more than skin deep6·9 months agoNot in detail, but it actually does:
“Often the mothers are saying exactly what I am but need their child to hear it from an expert,” says Dr. Dendy Engelman, a Manhattan dermatologist. “They’re like, ‘Maybe she’ll listen to you because she certainly doesn’t listen to me.’”
While younger kids may be reasoned with, teenagers aren’t as easy to handle as some say. Puberty is a hell of a drug.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Young girls are using anti-aging products they see on social media. The harm is more than skin deep8·9 months agoIMHO, this is a very sensitive topic, and I’m glad I don’t have kids for this to be a worry for me.
Smartphones became a big thing when I was already in high school, and social media at the time still wasn’t this aggressive, but my father did monitor my activity on the PC, mostly secretly, and it made me feel anxious. This violation of privacy damaged my already shit/barely existent relationship with him. It’s also why I’m so paranoid of secretly being monitored. You have to already have a pretty good relationship with your parents for this not to potentially mess you up, at least in my experience.
What the solution to this is, I don’t know. Better digital/tech education in schools and at home would be a good step in that direction, but strict ad and product regulations should also be implemented, which - unfortunately expectedly - is being fought against (at least in the USA, according to the article).
Right? No matter what I wear, I’ll inevitably start freezing/being cold, especially my feet which I can’t just put extra layers on. Add to that eyes watering intensely in the cold, windy weather, plus runny nose, so can’t wear anything over it for any extended time, lest I bathe my face in snot. No, thank you. Give me summer and a fan.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto memes@lemmy.world•Borders are merely representations of governance3·1 year agoSame between Austria and Slovenia and Slovenia and Croatia. Well, at least on one side. Going from Austria to Croatia, nobody will stop you, but going from Croatia to Austria, they stop you on each border. Austria took COVID as an excuse to reinstate it, and Slovenia I guess chose to be very worried about illegal immigrants.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Reddit embracing all out enshittificationEnglish1·1 year agoSame here, but I still use 3rd party mobile app, because both the site (unless you use old.reddit) and the official mobile app are garbage.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Cops can force suspect to unlock phone with thumbprint, US court rules3·1 year agoOut-of-the-box it’s set to Wake Bixby, but it can be changed to Power off menu. One of the first things I changed when I got my phone.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto Technology@lemmy.world•Menstruation cycle tracking app breached users' privacy, B.C. class-action lawsuit allegesEnglish11·1 year agoSeems like they didn’t set www to redirect to the main site. If you go to https://dripapp.org it works fine.
DeviantOvary@lemmy.worldto News@lemmy.world•Oprah Exits Weight Watchers Board After Admitting She Took Weight Loss Meds, Stock Tumbling4·1 year agoI’ve been reading so much about how simple it is to lose weight, it’s all about caloric deficit. I’ve also been in Hashimoto’s and hypothyroidism communities long enough to know that’s not always true. It’s probably true for healthy individuals, but with Hashi’s and hypothyroidism, metabolism doesn’t work as well, so you can be in caloric deficit and work out, yet still unable to shed the extra weight.
Lol, we used those little transmitters that you plug into the cigarette lighter plug until several years ago in a mid 2000s car, and they’re still sold and used by people. The funniest thing that happened was when we were overtaking a semi who had one of these, but with a stronger transmitter, so for a couple of seconds we were listening to the guy’s random turbo folk music.